Have you ever been out, had a busty girl genuinely into you, give you her phone number, and then have her not pickup or return your call? Keep in mind that I'm not referring to you guys who force phone numbers from BBW that really aren't into you. I'm strictly referring to when a girl seems to really like you. I'll tell you something that I have been very aware of, but never really acknowledged: BBW do not like it when you don't pursue them like you really want them. If you're a guy, especially a cute guy, when you don't pursue a chubby woman very soon after she gives you her contact information, she's going to think that you're a player and want nothing to do with you.
1. Introduction
2. Dating Game
Not only that, but with a chubby woman that has a lot of male options, if you wait too long to pursue her, then she will forget about you and start thinking about a newer guy. I will tell you this: when a plus size woman has other options, and you try to toy around with her, she will not hesitate to move on to the next guy. Why? Because almost every woman wants a guy that will actually pursue her immediately and not try to turn it into a game. Some of you might be wondering why I wait around to call a girl. It's because I know that if I wait a few days or weeks to call a girl, and she is still into me, I know that I have a woman that will let me get away with whatever I want. I know that I can ditch her, talk to other girls, and pretty much have my way with her, and at the very worst, she'll just cry.
3. The stronger types of BBW
The stronger types of BBW, or women that may be into you, but not enough to put up with your shit, will almost always pick up on your game playing antics and quickly move on to the next guy. These BBW are not as dumb as you think they are. When you try to play that "wait three days" or whatever game, they are very savvy to it. This is the main reason why a lot of phone numbers go bad. Men wait too long to call. These oversized women know that you're either playing games, you're too afraid to call (showing a lack of confidence), or you're putting them off for another chubby girl.
4. Call Chubby Women
So what can you do about this? When you're talking to a busty girl, and she seems genuinely into you, make sure that you call her the very next day, AT THE LATEST, and set up a date (if I met her during the day, I'd probably contact her that night). It shows that you are really interested in her, it shows that you aren't playing games, and it shows that you aren't putting her off for another chubby girl. Not only that, but you're calling her when you are still fresh on her mind and not just a blur that she no longer cares about.
5. Conclusion
As men, we tend to think that we should wait to call BBW, and it's a very terrible way to go about things. What sense does it make to wait on calling a girl that is ALREADY INTO YOU. Do you think she's going to say "he called me the very next day, so I don't like him anymore"? I don't know a single girl that will all of a sudden not like a guy because he actually cared enough to call the next day. BBW may not like it when you stalk them, but they appreciate it when you actually make an effort to show them that you are serious about seeing them again.
6. Comments
You are a guy that gets it. While I don't object to the use of game and find it even a necessary tool in dating, courtship and long term relationships, it is being mis-used and abused by some guys out there and it will end up their loss. Of course, most of these guys will never admit to themselves or others that they fucked it up...and so it goes. Denial, delusion and the blame game carries them through life. Keep up the good work. ;)